"The family house should not be a place where a group of individuals live together
in conflict, always fighting and arguing. It is not a place for just eating and sleeping,
thinking that this is what life is and that this is what enjoyment is.
That makes family life hell..But you can turn your family into a haven,
your house into a home, an abode of happiness and bliss, a place of peace and love.
There definitely is effort involved; it can be a kind of sadhana (spiritual practice)."